NEW FR3SH MUSIC

Kanye & Jay-Z Go Hard Remix!!! It's mean...

http://www.zshare.net/audio/534744259f481ac5/

IN REAL LIFE???

3s A CROWD???

So I was talking to a girl the other day and I asked her would she do a 3some to please her man and she replied no. She said she was too selfish for that. T hat is also the case with most women if you ask them that question. But the more I talk with women, I found out it is has nothing to do with selfishness at all... it has to do with insecurity. Is it true in the back of your mind, if you had a 3some would you be worried about the alternate party being better than you? Leave your comments.... inquiring minds want to know.

IN REAL LIFE???

NYE 09

With the New Year on the horizon, what is everybody plans for NYE?? If you are planning to go to somebody's club lemme just take right now to laugh at you (Lmao @ u!!) for fixing your mind up to pay jacked up cover prices to attend the same spot you went last week for $10. Also, with the New Year rolling in, what's everybody's New Years Resolution?? Or do you not believe in that practice??

Comments please...

LADIES CHRISTMAS GIFT ADVICE

To the ladies... what can you not stand getting from your guy on Christmas? And what would be that perfect gift that you would instantly give up the drawz?? Keep in mind, yall aint gettin no engagement diamonds come Thursday so don't suggest that one lol

WHAT'S REALLY GOING ON???

OK... I'm leading the petition to God about this weather cuz this shit is gettin outta hand. I mean, we gotta get up and go to work and stop and get gas. Then we gotta worry about almost dying when we drive places cuz our windshield washing fluid is frozen... I mean let's be fa real... God yo Chicago Chil'ren need a break, please and Amen!

P.S. And on top of that the Bears got a big game tonight and we need a win and these cold weather conditions ain't helpin nobody

TOP 5 DEAD OR ALIVE

We always hear this question and I always find the answers intriguing depending on who you are talking to. With that said, I wanna know everybodys top 5 emcee's of all time. Oh and just for you Lil Wayne lovers out there... he is not allowed to be in the discussion please and thank you lol.

YOUNG BERG IS DOA...

I don't really like this song but he was coming at Yung Berg and I dont like him at all so I had to put it up to honor my dislike for him lol

NEW FR3SH MUSIC

LMAO!!!

I wish he would have hit his ass!!!

Iraqi throws a shoe at President George Bush @ Yahoo! Video

PLAXICO PSA LOL

Funny Videos | Funny Cartoons | More Video Clips

IN REAL LIFE???

A British TV channel was scheduled to air a controversial documentary Wednesday night showing a terminally ill man committing assisted suicide. The film follows retired university professor Craig Ewert during the last four days of his life in 2006, when he visited a Swiss clinic with his wife, Mary, in order to die. "Right to Die: The Suicide Tourist" shows Ewert lying in a rented Zurich apartment, where an employee of the clinic prepares a lethal dose of drugs for Ewert to drink. As the camera rolls, and with his wife by his side, Craig Ewert then closes his eyes and dies.

Are you serious?? People really want to watch other people die in real life?? Sure, we don't mind seeing people get killed and shot up in movies but in real life??? Man... they went to far on this one

GOTCHO ASS

What is everybody's reaction to Gov Blagojevich's recent run in with the law? And do yall think they will try and tie Obama to this story some kind of way seeing as how we know the media loves to cook up shit? If ya'll aint up on game here is a link to the story http://www.cnn.com/2008/POLITICS/12/10/illinois.governor/index.html

BEST AND WORST

With Christmas fast approaching I wanna know what's the best Christmas gift you got and the worst. And don't be afraid to put yo mama on blast for getting you a PS one when you clearly wanted a PS2 but she didn't get to the store in time to get one before they sold out so now you got something you don't even want... (sorry, maybe that was just my story lol)

NATE'S KNOWLEDGE

Yo, let's help the boy Nate out with his survey. Copy and paste the questions in your responses please. Thanks,

• Can you cite an example of how tv programs, youtube, or movies have offended you?

• Can you name a specific one? And what was offensive?

• Do you think that the media portrays minorities in a dark light?

• Do you learn new things from tv and film etc?

• How do commercials and advertisements influence you or what you buy?

• Do you have any suggestions on how to change the internet, tv, film, and what?

GET JUICED

O.J. Simpson's recent 15-year jail sentence hasn't prevented him from releasing "Get Juiced," the NFL Hall of Famer's first ever rap video. O.J. Simpon's new rap video was conceived as a prank for a DVD entitled Juiced, which showcases the controversial football great performing pranks on unsuspecting victims, in the vein of Ashton Kutcher's Punk'd. Using a gangsta rap persona named MC Juice, Simpson performs the track at a strip club surrounded by numerous burlesque, nude dancers. Simpson raps over a beat similar to "I'm Serious," a 1988 classic by Philadelphia rapper Steady B., that was produced by KRS One's Boogie Down Productions. "All you player haters and you sucker MC's better get on your knees/and get some of the these/These nuts..." Simpson raps while surrounded by a harem of women. Outtakes from the video also show Simpson holding a tongue-in-cheek audition for the strippers, dressed as Elvis with a midget, working in a fast food drive-thru, dressed as an 80-year-old man playing bingo and as a cheater who gets caught with a married woman. Perhaps the most outrageous stunt features Simpson attempting to sell his infamous white Ford Bronco to unsuspecting marks, while acknowledging there are "no bodies in it" and that the SUV had "escapability." Aware that many would call this DVD tasteless in light of Simpson's legal woes, Juiced distributor and Xtreme Entertainment Group CEO Rick Mahr argues that projects like this are big business in the American market. "Juiced is America's new guilty pleasure and will have everyone talking," Mahr told AllHipHop.com in a statement. "We were shocked to see O.J. film these uncensored segments and surreal scenarios. From the moment you put Juiced in your DVD player and press play, the footage will keep you glued to your screen. You won't believe your eyes." Simpson's latest venture comes on the heels on his December 5 conviction for robbing two sport memorabilia stars at gunpoint. He was sentenced to 33 years in prison on armed kidnapping and robbery charges. Although an appeal is pending, the sentence will run concurrently if it stands, allowing Simpson to be eligible for parole after 9 years. An uncensored version of O.J. Simpson's "Get Juiced" will be featured on the Juiced comedy DVD, which is available in stores and online for $19.99 now.

PF3 THEME SONG OF THE WEEK

I'm deeming this the PF3 theme song of the week

GO HARD YEEZY LOL

Ye at his "finest"...

ON A SAD NOTE...

An upcoming Dayton, Ohio actor who starred in Eminem's hit movie 8 Mile has been found dead of an apparent suicide, AllHipHop.com has confirmed. Actor De'Angelo Wilson, who starred as "DJ Iz" in 8 Mile, apparently hung himself on November 26, just one day before Thanksgiving. According to police, Wilson, who also had a role in the hit movie Antwone Fisher, was found dead in the back room of a Los Angeles business, although it took police a week to locate his next of kin. Once Wilson's mother was contacted, she revealed that she didn't have the funds to bring her deceased son's body back to his native home of Dayton. A group of his friends have stepped in - including the real Antwone Fisher, who befriended Wilson during the production of the movie Antwone Fisher. Wilson's most recent role was in 2006, when he starred as "Julius" in Mercy Street. He also had small roles in The Salon, CSI: NY, Outside Man and others.

JAY-Z INTERVIEW W/ ANGIE MARTINEZ

JESSICA'S JOURNAL

Luke 12:48

But he that knew not, and did commit things worthy of stripes, shall be beaten with few [stripes]. For unto whomsoever much is given, of him shall be much required: and to whom men have committed much, of him they will ask the more. Why are your co-workers trippin? Why did your significant other do that? Why did you get laid off? Why does everyone come to me with their problems? Why am I so confused? Well if you have a job, are in a relationship, are breathing, have food, have shelter, have clothing, and a spirit of ministry, then you are required to not only go through but go through in excellence! You have been given MUCH!

NATE'S KNOWLEDGE

Ok.. After careful evaluation and thought, research, and more thought, I finally have come to a conclusion about everything that's going on with the mortgage crisis... SHITS FUCKED UP! Basically what happened is people who couldn't afford shit got shit. You walk up to a broker and say gimmie a house, he says, do you have a job you say yeah I make enough to buy a house and he says ok I will help you get one. He calls a bank and says give this guy a home loan and the bank says cool. Then broker says how much you got down on the house and the homeowner says well I ain't got shit... broker says ok. Well we can get you a loan for that too, but what we will do is "adjust the interest rates of your home according to the market" or sub prime loans so that eventually we can recoup that money back from you. Now the bank ain't verified shit, and the dude making 50,000 a year living in a 350,000 home that was over priced because demand was high. And when the market was ready to collect that money homeowner wasn't ready to pay. One month he paying 800, the next he paying 3500. He like hold up you sommma bitches! I cant afford that shit, and bank say well gimmie my house back. Now that happened to a few million people so the bank said, damn... We gotta get some of this money back from all these houses. So the bank sells the unpaid loans to dude on wall street. Like I got these millions of dollars in unpaid debt and I will sell you these for a little of nothing and throw in some good loans too. The greedy wall street dude seeing that he could make a huge profit said FUCK YEAH Imma buy that shit, and then Imma sell it to everybody all around the world Craig.. the world... This whole time nobody thinking about all the rest of the homes that's out there with people who cant afford the adjustable rates because they too busy passing around IOUs back and forth but no physical money to pay for the shit. Yet they paying themselves and the people they sold the IOUs the residuals from them. But then one day, there wasn't enough money to pay on the IOUs and people got pissed. I bought this totally good IOU but I ain't got paid! What the fuck is up with that shit? Gimmie my money man... then wall street like, well i ain't got yo money because a lot of people didn't pay on they house and shit got forclosed and nobody paying that shit off so leave me the fuck alone, go tell homeowner to give you yo money... So the dude wall street sold to said, ok well I'm selling all this shit and I want my money back dick weed...then wall street calling the bank like we gotta get the money back for this shit cause they over here tripping and shit, and the bank like, well we don't really have that shit. So in the end nobody got shit but everbody want they shit, so the government had to step in and give them OUR shit. But the funny thing about that is... the government aint really got shit either!!!! They out here writing checks in the name of the United States.. so everybody passing out fake money while aint shit fake about unemployment and homelessness.

HOE RADAR...

Guys... is your girl going above and beyond to hook your boy up with one of her friends? Does she refer to him as "your only friend she likes" or "the good 1 out the bunch"? Do you ever wonder why she is constantly asking "why doesnt he have a girlfriend"? It never once occured to you that she wants to FUCK your HOMEY!!! She wants to hook him up with a friend so she can hear how the DICK is... and she's always asking why doesnt he have a girlfriend cuz she'd fuck with him quick if she hadn't met your punk ass first...

BIRDS OF A FEATHER...

Why is it when you ask women do they have any friends they say "I don't mess with a lot of girls, or "females are too messy"? I always wanted to know why....plz comment

WHERE'S THE LOVE???

OK, we mentioned the women that attempt to stick it out with a brother that's locked up, which is commendable. I have to give some women credit for being GOOD... whatever... But what about the chick who knows her man is selling drugs, she's reaping the benefits of his lifestyle, but as soon as he goes to jail...she's GONE!!! You all know her! Everybody knows a couple girls named Tamesha, or Antonniqua, who's boyfriend is gettin' it the streets! Its one thing if she's warned him about the repercussions of his actions , and won't except money from what he does. However, I believe if she will stash his drugs, accept money, make runs, spend some money, lie to police, and buy her mama some shit with his drug money she should be right there with him through his sentence!!! If I were the guy, I'd snitch on her ass and say she was my partner!!! What yall think?

JAIL HOUSE ROCK

So, in my many ghetto escapades I've encountered countless women who have dated men while they were incarcerated... This is by far one of the strangest and most naive situations I've ever seen. There's no physical contact, and the woman is deprived of the very thing that keeps her heart beating... ATTENTION!!! I know I'll catch it for that statement, but its true! Show me a woman who doesn't like attention from her man, and I'll show you a lying, cheatin', sneaky whore that's sleeping around! I'm just serious... but really, what makes a woman stay with a man thats serving a long prison term... and don't give me that LOVE shit either! In the many words of women across the world "Whats Love Got To Do With It!!!"

JESSICA'S JOURNAL

TUESDAY'S INSPIRATIONAL WORD

Hebrews 12:14-15 (NIV) Make every effort to live in peace with all men and to be holy; without holiness no one will see the Lord. See to it that no one misses the grace of God and that no bitter root grows up to cause trouble and defile many. So you may be bitter right now. You may even be angry. Are you hoping that someone fails? Are you hoping that they don't recover...they don't find their way back? I know that you might say, "of course not!" There are times when our spirits say one thing but our actions say another. Don't turn away from others. Regardless to what they have said or done, YOU will be held accountable for what you do. Remember, ANOTHER'S ACTIONS WILL NEVER JUSTIFY YOUR SIN! Think about it.

GET IT HOW U LIVE VOL. 1

NOW THAT IT'S OVER...

Now that the holiday has passed and we are now into the Christmas season, how many of yall got pissed off or annoyed with family members this weekend? Don't get me wrong... family is great and we all love our families but sometimes do you find yourself saying under your breath "I can't wait til yall leave"? And how many of yall went to Black Friday only to get pissed off with the amount of people that were out shopping in your way??

DOES IT MATTER THE RACE???

Cheating is definitely wrong... I think? Even If you're not married... I guess? But when you are BLACK (African-American) there seems to be a higher level of disrespect... or added insult to injury when the person you cheat with is WHITE....what do you guys think?

(PS Sorry Mike, but u the poster child for this topic)

GAME OVER

Being pregnant does not exactly end your life, but you gotta make some ish off limits! Pregnant at the club? Big no no! Check this out...During All-Star weekend in 2003, I had the honor of walking into a strip club and seeing a pregnant stripper!!! Is it really that serious...she had to be at least 4 to 5 months cuz she was able to move pretty well, but she was definitely with child! Ladies whats off limits...Partying, Sex,etc? PLEASE comment

NOW SERVING #...

This topic always burns the women up during Fr3shTalk, but it makes for a good conversation... How many sexual partners is too many! This question goes both ways, because there are male sluts in the world too... But each person is different, so what number would you be able to handle before you got disgusted and called it off... (P.S. this topic is for entertainment purposes only!!!) You don't have to post your number, if you choose to, cool. PLEASE Dont post angry comments toward anyone else because you mis-managed your pussy/ and or penis!

T.I. TAKES THE STAND... SNITCHING???

So T.I. took the stand to testify in the murder of his best friend Philant Johnson stemming from a shooting in 2006 in Ohio. In the video he takes the stand and gives his account of the shooting as it happened. Now there are so many accusations by people who may say that T.I.P. <<< (I call him that cause I been a fan) is a snitch. These accusations come from him being caught with all those guns and already being a convicted felon and only getting sentenced to a year in prison. They say he had to tell on someone to get that type of reduced time. Now they are accusing him of snitching by taking the stand in the murder trial of his best friend! WTF is wrong with people? Snitching? People take this "g code" shit too far. The man's best friend was killed, and you expect him not to say what he saw? That's bullshit! They showed him pics of his best friend's dead body while he was on the stand and niggas call him a snitch? The whole snitching things derives from the Mobster lifestyle and if anybody has done their homework, the code clearly states "you don't rat on your friends"! People are sayin because he's a "street dude" he should handle it like a "street dude". Man he has kids, a family, and a career to worry about! What do yall think? Snitching or Not???

HOW MUCH WOULD IT TAKE???

Lets pretend we live in A worlD where people are truthful about their sexual exploits. How much would It takE for you to drop your guard and go all out Sexually. I already know some people will lie when I know they do nasty shit for the FREE!

NOBODY DID ANYTHING???

A Miami teenager straight up killed himself on the Internet in a live stream and nobody did a thing. The boy, 19 years old, took a bunch of pills as people watched or egged him on. The kid was a college student that suffered from bi-polar disorder and eventually took all his pills and some sleeping pills at one time. The deadly cocktail ended his life. He appeared to go to sleep on his bed. Eventually, people realized it wasn't a joke and contacted the website. The only thing is, that took about 12 hours. When police did arrive, the boy was still streaming live from the house…dead. Some didn't take him seriously, because he had threatened suicide in the past and didn't do it. Needless to say, the family is furious and looking for answers. This maY be an instance where there are going have a hard time getting closure.

BYRD'S WORD

Well today I want the word to be a little bit different. Today I want you all to learn how to embrace your inner Dope Boy!!! What I mean by that is, the mindset the a hustler has on the corners we need to have in every aspect of life. Remember you have to make you what you are going to be. Nobody else will do that for you! And keep this in mind, nobody can stop you but you! A lot of us sit and say we are staying faithful and waiting for our time to come! I've waited long enough! I'm making it my time and I encourage all of you to do the same! The time for us to rise is now! So embrace the Frank Lucas... nah, not Frank he told on people... but you know what I'm saying!!! Get that hustle in you and make it your time!!!

WAKE UP MR. WEST

Ok ok ok... so after all of Kanye's latest fiascos. 2 run ins with the paparazzi, 2 arrest, countless other crazy things he's done, this album which in my opinion is just too out there for me, and then last night on the AMAs!!! The man said he wanted to be Elvis??? In real life Ye???
Don't get me wrong, I understand the point he was trying to make, but terrible use of a reference. You want to be a racist white dude, who went through a depression, spent months locked in a room, no shower, o'ding on pain meds and sleeping pills, and die on a toilet! Word son??? I mean I understand he has a lot to deal with after the death of his mother is this is probably all aftermath of that. I'm not judging the man, but this is where a concerned fan steps in. Ye was like a super hero to me! He did the impossible. When he got his Roc chain, here, in Chicago, they booed him and he still reps home like he had all the support in the word. Ye gives me so much inspiration, but as of lately he hasn't been himself. I mean I knew when I seen the Jeezy video for "Put On" and he didn't even look into the camera. Man where are the people close to him? They need to step in and try to talk with him. The nigga had a "fro-hawk" and said he wants an internship for design and do music on weekends! WTF!!!!!
Man... Ye, GLC, Reallydoe... somebody if you read this, get this to Ye.. Tell him to get a haircut, shave, stop wearing the Pee Wee Herman suits, loosen up the jeans a lil, lace up his Air Yeezy's and come back to Chicago!!!! Don't let this wreck you homeboy!!! We believe in you!!!

JESSICA'S JOURNAL

(You gotta know when to hold em...)

Mark 5:36 (NLT)
But Jesus ignored their comments and said to Jairus, "Don't be afraid. Just trust me."
For years we have been encouraged by our teachers and parents to stay focused and pay attention. I believe in the importance of focusing and being attentive but the reality is...some of us need to work on not paying attention! Many of us suffer because we pay attention to the wrong things. Part of lifes' lesson is to know when and when not to. There are many things out there that are meant to distract you and take your attention. You don't have to respond to everything. Trust the one who will never leave you nor forsake you. Have a wonderful weekend!
Amen

IN REAL LIFE???

Fla. man faces charge after allegedly hitting his girlfriend with a sandwich in the car

PORT ST. LUCIE, Fla. (AP) _ A man faces a domestic battery charge after allegedly hitting his girlfriend with a sandwich as she was driving on Interstate 95 on Friday. Police said the 19-year-old man became angry and hit the woman in the arm and face with a sandwich, knocking her glasses off.

The victim nearly lost control of the car because she couldn't see the road and the man then allegedly ripped off the rear-view mirror and used it to shatter the windshield.

The man was freed on $7,500 bail.

Police haven't said what type of sandwich was involved

FR3SH TALK

FINALLY, FR3SH TALK HAS COME BACK TO THE FR3SH SPOT!!! Check out part 1

NEW FR3SH MUSIC

PROJECT: FR3SH PRESENTS "GET IT HOW U LIVE VOL. 1"

Be on the lookout for new PF3 joints every week via the Fr3sh Spot!!! This is Raw & Uncut (no mixes just straight raw music from PF3 to you)... you wanted new music and we puttin it on you... Get It How U Live!!!

Check out the first snippets here

THIS SHIT GOTTA STOP!!!

IN LIGHT OF ALL THE SASHA FIERCE PANDEMONIUM PRESENT TO U HER OTHER ALTER EGO, AND HE'S GIVING HER A RUN FOR HER MONEY!!!http://www.blackbottom.com/watch.php?v=QSonBANahFN

IS THAT HOW YOU REALLY FEEL???

Ok LADIES! How far is too far? We know men be fucking up, and get caught up on some dumb shit sometimes...but what gives a women the right to mess up a material thing that a man has worked hard for. And in some cases even get physical with him...9 times out of 9, you knew he was on bullshit anyway...state your cases please...be honest!!!

OHHH, LADIES CHOICE...

We always go HARD when it comes to women and their ASSETS on the Fr3shSpot. Discussing what we like and dislike about the female anatomy. Today we gone do it a lil different. We wanna know what ya'll feeln'! All the way back to LL females been feelin the "Buff Boys", but now the "slight of frame" brothas are makn a strong case with the ladies...post your comments

BYRD'S WORD

Let Go and Let God... possibly the greatest notion ever, but not the easiest thing to do. Once you understand, grasp, and apply this notion, your life will become easier. It is natural for us as humans to want to take control and handle all situations as they come to us, but some things are bigger than us and were not meant to be our problems. Thus, a test by God, he wants to know if we trust him enough to be able to let go and let him handle it. I practiced this notion before with a very tragic situation in my life... I laid down my burden before him, and when I did it, it was gone, for good. I didn't feel the pain nor the pressure and I am actually able to talk to the person who crossed me without anger or malice intent in my heart. So to all of you, because we all have problems, when its too much for you, kneel before him, lay your burden down, ask God to take it away, trust him to do so, and put your faith in him. This will make your life easier, bring you closer to God, and ultimately make you a better person!

HOW DO YALL FEEL ABOUT...

The new all touch screen cell phones??? At first glance, they prolly look like the shit but after having an iPhone for about 3 months, I can definitely say I miss my keyboard on my phone. Afterall, who decided an all touch screen phone is gon be the wave of the future? All it takes is something to go out on your screen and then you are pretty much done... So I ask yall, what do yall think about the touch screen cell phone revolution that we seem to be in nowadays.

IN REAL LIFE...

OK... we already know Beyonce bit the "Like A Boy" joint from BC Jean (if ya'll didnt know about that check her website http://www.bcjean.net/)... But damn B.. you gon bite "A Milli" too huh?? Listen to one of the joints on her album called "Diva". And FYI, the I am... Sasha Fierce album is not the deal... but maybe women will dig it. I definitely don't.

http://www.zshare.net/audio/514467649314d763/

PS Beyonce we still want to do a song with you and Hov!!

BEYONCE SNL SKIT LOL

Al I know you gon fux with this Beyonce clip from SNL

RETURN OF THE FR3SH SPOT

Ok yall... we fell off. Granted. We know that, but we bout to bring it back starting this week so definitely look forward to Fr3sh Talk coming back and more topics and what we all know and love... RELATIONSHIP issues! Apologies for the hiatus but we back in the building. As always... post on these comments!!

MICHAEL JACKSON FRIDAY

WHEN KEEPING IT REAL GOES WRONG

Bump J has been arrested on bank robbery charges.

Police in Carbondale arrested Bump J, 28, earlier this week after a routine traffic stop. His last known address was in the South Loop. Bump J is accused of holding up a Chase Bank in Oak Park on Jan. 4, 2007. He and an unnamed man allegedly made off with $100,000, according to the FBI. Bump J faces up to 20 years in prison if convicted.

This man had a McDonalds commercial and his song was on Madden 06 and now this... I know its ugly out here but it's a fine line between ugly and dumb...

OH YEAH... WE IN THERE!!!

What do yall think about Obama being elected the 44th President of the United States?? Comments!!

HE'S FUCKIN MAD... @ JANET JACKSON LOL

This is funny as hell to me but I feel him tho to some extent. But dude... do some push-ups or somethin!!

WE IN THERE!!!

GET YO ASS OUT AND VOTE!!!

Make sure yall get out and vote but in the meantime, let's have a laugh!!! lol Shout out to SNL lmao!

INT3RMISSION

INT3RMISSION COMING SOON!!! "The period between the acts of a theatrical or musical performance."

MICHAEL JACKSON FRIDAY

Thanks to youtube disabling all of the Thriller 13 min video embedding codes, we gon have to work with the live version from 87

I WAS THINKIN

We've been hearing about J-Hud and her family for a few days now, and although it's tragic and real sad, this whole thing raised an eyebrow...or McCain's thumb...I mean this all could have been prevented--that is if William Balfour is the killer. Knowing of his history, why would Julia Hudson marry a man fresh out of jail and have him around her child? This might be mean of me to say, sorry for being superficial, but...dude...you married an ex con...why would you be with some1 like that when you have a child. I kno...peoplechange..they find God or Allah or whatever...but I would be a little more cautious, you could never be too sure, you know? I can see if it's just you...but you have a kid that needs extra protection, because if something were to happen to that child...your life is over... I mean how irresponsible can you be? His mother, Michele Balfour told reporters, "I didn't raise no murderer. He was not a child abductor.They have the wrong person." I would believe her but *newsflash* he is being held for violating his parole on a 1999 conviction for attempted murder and vehicular hijacking, and he served 7 years in prison. I know if I ever had children and for some reason I was single and looking for a new boo, I would be looking through a fine tooth comb...*sigh* I'm spent....What do ya'll think?

ANYTIME ANYONE DIES IT HURTS THE SAME

It's a shame what happened to Jennifer Hudson's mother brother and nephew over the weekend and our prayers and thoughts go out to her and her family but during this incident it made me question our state of mind regarding celebrities. Is it not a tragedy anytime any ones mother or family member dies or gets killed? Do the families of people that are not related to celebrities hurt any less? I am not trying to take anything away from Jennifer Hudson's family at all but in the grand scheme of things isn't my family just as important in my eyes as hers is in her eyes? Does she value her family more than, let's say Lisa Sanders?? But because she is a celebrity I feel like we make it seem worse or our hearts go out a lil bit more b/c she is who she is. The bottom line is somebody died and we should give those same condolences to Lisa Sanders family as we do to our black celebrities.

ADD TO YOUR READING LIST!!!

Here at the blogspot we not only talk about current issues, relationships, and straight up bs... we also do read and are intellectuals as well so with that said YALL NEED TO CHECK OUT THIS BOOK and step ya game up!!! Definitely worth the read!!!

Reesha White-Howard and Mary Cooper collaborate and bring the honesty and candidness women have been yearning for in the literary world of non-fiction storytellingCHICAGO, IL.- September XX, 2008- Whether you are a recent female college graduate or a two-year post graduate that just loves to read, "Reaching Your Quarterlife" is the best source for all things candid. Reesha White-Howard and Mary Cooper don't just tell you how to avoid mistakes; they also try to help you cope with any current situation you may be going through. The authors give vivid recurrences of their lives to help you along the way and included interactive activities to make things fun and exciting."This ain't your mama's advice book," the gregarious authors proclaim. "For those who are easily offended, please be advised that we don't sugar coat things in here. This book is not for the faint of heart. We are talking to you as friends because we're all in this game of life together and real friends keep it real…right?" What sets them apart from normal young women? Well, the truth is that their ability to take pride in their pasts, and admittance that we are all works in progress, gives them the ability to relate at a basic level with young adult readers. Created by two women who had issues for days, "Reaching Your Quarterlife" was written to instill hope and understanding to its readers. "Reaching Your Quarterlife" can be purchased through the QL Network's website: www.theqlnetwork.com or at the Myspace address: www.Myspace.com/Quarterlifebook. Happy Reading!

MOVING ON... OUT???

Flying the coop...leaving the nest...shackin' up...cohabitating...whatever you want to call it. How do you make it work? You've been with that special someone for a while and for whatever reason, decide to take that major step. How do you keep the relationship going well while being a good roomate? Got any advice?

NEXT SEASON ON DANCING WITH THE STARS

All I can do is LMAO!!!

HALLOWEEN... FACT OR FICTION

Halloween is just around the corner and many are looking for a fly costumre or where the hot spot will be to partake in a night of fun and pretend. But what about those not so pretend moments and encounters with ghosts and spirits? A lot of people don't believe in ghosts and say that experiences that people have with spirits are "in the mind"...So what do you think? Are ghosts real or fake? And have you ever had a not so fun run in?

HOMECOMING

I know a lot of us went back to visit former schools or alma maters for homecoming during the last few weeks to kick it or relive a college weekend and the "college good life" but in doing so did you feel out of place?? PF3 had the pleasure of visiting an Illinois college campus this weekend and it was great, distant, boring, fun, and interesting all at the same time. But there were moments when we felt "old" lol. So with that said, when yall go back to visit schools after you are a few years older, do yall go thru that "what am I doing here" thought process??

IN REAL LIFE...

I know that every lady out there is anxiously awaiting the newest show to come to vh1 "Real Chance at Love". In case you cannot tell, I am being VERY sarcastic right now. The whole Stallionaire situation is WACK ARNOLD'S in the words of Mark Byrd.

Don't you wish you could have a Stallionaire of your own?

FR3SH VIDEO OF THE WEEK

You may wanna fast fwd about 2 mins & 40 seconds or so...

RAYNA REIGNS...

So, I know you've heard…Gabrielle Union and D.Wade are OFFICIAL! The ink on the divorce papers isn't even dry yet and, technically, D. Wade is still married. This brings me to the question: How soon is too soon? Yeah, we don't know the specs of what happened in this particular situation, but imagine if it were you. If you were married and your partner wanted a divorce, then 5 min later they were all over town with someone who had more money, was better looking, and just everything you couldn't be….how would you feel? How much time would you need to mend your broken heart?

REALLY...

Chicago Sun-Times columnist Mary Mitchell had an interesting article about Rush Limbaugh and his comments about the current political election. Definitely very interesting stuff. But more importantly, It's happening... they starting to complain and cry already and Obama ain't even in office. If he wins, we might as well get ready for this kinda bs on a minutely (is that a word??) basis.

Click the link to be informed...

http://www.suntimes.com/news/mitchell/1213415,CST-NWS-mitch10.article

RAYNA REIGNS...

Jazmine Sullivan's "Fearless" has been on repeat in my IPOD for the past week. I must admit, when first heard her single "Need You Bad", I was thinking "who is the fake ass Lauryn Hill? No this newcomer did not come and straight swagger-jack my shero! (pre-clown makeup phase. Just pray for her…)". Anyway, I added 8 new albums to my IPOD before I hit the gym and was going to give them a listen while getting my Kanye workout plan on, but could not get off of Jazmine Sullivan!

Before Jazmine, I listened to the new J. Hud and I give her label a big thumbs down. Jennifer Hudson is an amazing talent and her label should've hooked her up with some songwriters and producers who could do more for her. I'm not sure who all contributed to the album, but watered down, unoriginal songs (except for "Spotlight") did not do anything for that powerful voice. Maybe I was expecting too much from her, but her potential is limitless!

Anyway, back to Jazmine. Just about every song is hot and the emotion in her voice is intense. The only song that she could've kept was the one about being abused. Yes, it is her true story, but it just seems forced and I kept thinking about Eve's hit she had back in the day. Long story short, you NEED to listen to her album. Period! If you've heard it, please let me know I'm not alone on this!

Neyo was alright for a third album. I was hoping he had more up-tempo tracks; ballads are just easy for him. Of course, lyrically, I gotta give him a hand clap. Honestly, he is the best songwriter out right now (maybe he should've done the whole J. Hud album because "Spotlight" is my song!). Robin Thicke's "Something New" was just that, a different type of sound than the Thicke that we're used to. And it works! The new Mint Condition is another disappointment. There are a few tracks that stayed true to their style and the songs that they were adventurous on just did not do it for me. Stick with what works! I still have Eric Benet and Raphael Saadiq (which I hear is excellent) to listen to so more on those later. So what ya'll think?

QUESTION OF THE DAY...

Now I know what the immediate response to this question is going to be so I ask you to look deeper than that first answer that pops into your head when responding to this topic.

If your significant other cheats, do you automatically end it and call it quits??? I'm always interested to see what people say when asked this b/c you never truly know what you will do until you are in the situation and people forget how strong feelings are. So with that being said, do you instantly call it quits if someone cheats??

Comments please

THE EPITOME OF A FR3SH GIRL

HALLE, HALLE, HALLE, HALLE... "give me 3.5 minutes, maybe even 4... you'll be wanting to marry a nigga!" All you can do is shake yo head... SHE COLD BLOODED!!!

THE RETURN OF FR3SH TALK

TOMORROW (10/9/08)!!! AND OH YEAH... YOU GON NEED YOUR HEADPHONES IF YOU ARE LISTENING AT WORK!!! LOL

WHAT A BIGGEDY BITCH!!! LMAO!!!

Rapper Maino (”Hi Hater”) confirms he indeed slapped the ish out of Young Berg (who I have technically banned from YBF but this ish was too funny to pass up) at a club this weekend. Basically Berg The Idiot walked up to Maino at a club the other night, said “I heard you’ve been talking reckless about me”, and actually repeated himself when Maino asked “What?” So in true NY style, Maino hauled off and slapped Berg Ike and Tina style for disrespecting him. Maino’s take?

“He didn’t come to me asking a question, he was like stepping to me. If you got a question for me, ask me in a way that we can talk about it. Don’t approach me like it’s a problem,” Maino continued. “I did a little bit of God’s work, I tried to discipline him.” “I’m a man before anything so if I’m at a club and somebody approach me in a disrespectful manner, what are you supposed to do? I don’t know how to handle it any other kind of way. I feel like I just gave him something light,” Maino added. “When you think about what could have happened…I’m around 20 people in my area and he came up to me asking me was I talking about him recklessly. I had no idea what he was talking about. I felt like I did him a favor. I tried to sober him up because something was wrong with him.”

DIDDY BLOG #24 LOL

NEW FR3SH MUSIC

WE'RE BAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAACK lol

MICHAEL JACKSON FRIDAY

SINCE THE VIDEO DIDN'T WORK...

In the video the kid Sergeant Willie Pete was talking about how girls tend to like a guy that's a thug, or has some street cred if u will (however u want to describe, but you know what I'm talking about) and they will go for this guy the clean cut guy. His rant was amusing nonetheless but he brought up some valid points in his rant that we can easily talk about here. So ladies, we ask you, do you always want the "bad boy"?? What is so appealing about him when you know 9 times out of 10 it's gon be more drama associated with him and more bad times than good?? I'm sure I'm not the only one that has gotten burned and walked away thinking "this nigga ain't got shit goin for himself and she wants him" (it was a blow to my Bannekar but I recovered lol) but holla at me... Why is it that women often go for the guy thats "bad to the bone"

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