ANYTIME ANYONE DIES IT HURTS THE SAME

It's a shame what happened to Jennifer Hudson's mother brother and nephew over the weekend and our prayers and thoughts go out to her and her family but during this incident it made me question our state of mind regarding celebrities. Is it not a tragedy anytime any ones mother or family member dies or gets killed? Do the families of people that are not related to celebrities hurt any less? I am not trying to take anything away from Jennifer Hudson's family at all but in the grand scheme of things isn't my family just as important in my eyes as hers is in her eyes? Does she value her family more than, let's say Lisa Sanders?? But because she is a celebrity I feel like we make it seem worse or our hearts go out a lil bit more b/c she is who she is. The bottom line is somebody died and we should give those same condolences to Lisa Sanders family as we do to our black celebrities.

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ADD TO YOUR READING LIST!!!

Here at the blogspot we not only talk about current issues, relationships, and straight up bs... we also do read and are intellectuals as well so with that said YALL NEED TO CHECK OUT THIS BOOK and step ya game up!!! Definitely worth the read!!!

Reesha White-Howard and Mary Cooper collaborate and bring the honesty and candidness women have been yearning for in the literary world of non-fiction storytellingCHICAGO, IL.- September XX, 2008- Whether you are a recent female college graduate or a two-year post graduate that just loves to read, "Reaching Your Quarterlife" is the best source for all things candid. Reesha White-Howard and Mary Cooper don't just tell you how to avoid mistakes; they also try to help you cope with any current situation you may be going through. The authors give vivid recurrences of their lives to help you along the way and included interactive activities to make things fun and exciting."This ain't your mama's advice book," the gregarious authors proclaim. "For those who are easily offended, please be advised that we don't sugar coat things in here. This book is not for the faint of heart. We are talking to you as friends because we're all in this game of life together and real friends keep it real…right?" What sets them apart from normal young women? Well, the truth is that their ability to take pride in their pasts, and admittance that we are all works in progress, gives them the ability to relate at a basic level with young adult readers. Created by two women who had issues for days, "Reaching Your Quarterlife" was written to instill hope and understanding to its readers. "Reaching Your Quarterlife" can be purchased through the QL Network's website: www.theqlnetwork.com or at the Myspace address: www.Myspace.com/Quarterlifebook. Happy Reading!

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MOVING ON... OUT???

Flying the coop...leaving the nest...shackin' up...cohabitating...whatever you want to call it. How do you make it work? You've been with that special someone for a while and for whatever reason, decide to take that major step. How do you keep the relationship going well while being a good roomate? Got any advice?

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NEXT SEASON ON DANCING WITH THE STARS

All I can do is LMAO!!!

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HALLOWEEN... FACT OR FICTION

Halloween is just around the corner and many are looking for a fly costumre or where the hot spot will be to partake in a night of fun and pretend. But what about those not so pretend moments and encounters with ghosts and spirits? A lot of people don't believe in ghosts and say that experiences that people have with spirits are "in the mind"...So what do you think? Are ghosts real or fake? And have you ever had a not so fun run in?

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HOMECOMING

I know a lot of us went back to visit former schools or alma maters for homecoming during the last few weeks to kick it or relive a college weekend and the "college good life" but in doing so did you feel out of place?? PF3 had the pleasure of visiting an Illinois college campus this weekend and it was great, distant, boring, fun, and interesting all at the same time. But there were moments when we felt "old" lol. So with that said, when yall go back to visit schools after you are a few years older, do yall go thru that "what am I doing here" thought process??

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IN REAL LIFE...

I know that every lady out there is anxiously awaiting the newest show to come to vh1 "Real Chance at Love". In case you cannot tell, I am being VERY sarcastic right now. The whole Stallionaire situation is WACK ARNOLD'S in the words of Mark Byrd.

Don't you wish you could have a Stallionaire of your own?

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