DROP HIM GIRL...
SCENARIO: Gina catches Martin cheating on her and goes to ask her best friend Pam's advice on the situation about what she should do. Should she stay or should she go? Pam goes into every cliche known to man about "once a cheater, always a cheater", "leave him girl, you don't need him..." (you know the usual comments that you can insert here). At this point, Pam is the epitome of a WOMAN being strong...
Next month Pam catches Tommy cheating on her but instead of taking her advice that she gave Gina last month, she is torn whether to stay or go...
Why is it that WOMEN, yes women, will talk so much shit about how they wouldn't deal with a man that cheats but then they turn around and deal with a man that cheats??
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Well from talking to women that I knew took their men back after he dogged... it goes back to being with someone out of convenience. A lot of women feel like they invested too much time to turn back now. Some women are content with a cheating man for the fact of saying they have a man. Some women may feel all men are gonna cheat when leave someone I know for a new dude who's gonna cheat. And some women feel that their man is a good man, he just cheated... like if a man is doing all for his woman and taking care of her but he cheats she will probably stay with him. Women are more forgiving then men... but don't get it twisted... she doesn't forget and when she takes you back... you gave her a "give the pussy away 1 time free card"
Pardon my typos... I was typing hella fast... but you get the damn drift! Lol
damn, this is a good ass question! here's the deal tho:
no one knows your situation better than u. by saying that, i mean, yea... its easy for the woman outside looking in to just be like 'forget dude,' and have the same thing done to her and be like, 'omg, what should i do!' everybody's situations are different and everybody's feelings for the next person are different too.
me, personally, there are 4 types of niggas in this world that i absolutely CAN NOT STAND! These niggas are:
1. Lames
2. Liars
3. Cheaters, and
4. Sendoffs
this attitude + a low bull shit tolerance = NEXT!
but back to what i was saying... all situations are different and before u start to judge a woman for telling her girl to ditch that nigga and she stays with her cheatin ass dog, its two different situations, 4 different people, and some shit that we will never REALLY understand...
SOME...and I stress SOME women are overly active in other peoples affairs! In ghetto terms that means too damn nosy! But I think a lot a people under-estimate the power of loneliness...some women would rather put up with a cheating man as opposed to not having man...as crazy as it sounds some women out here are even willing to share men! Some will even admit it, in the words of MC LYTE..."I don't care about those other girls, just be good to me"...
Exactly Mr. Austin...
And yes marky breezey, we are more forgiving than men. Why? we tend to feel more and have the bigger heart...
I just feel like men and women (not in relationships) need to keep each other in the same position.
i agree w breezy...I would be the 1st person to tell my friend "girllll you don't need that n@gga...u better leave him..." Meanwhile I was in an off and on relationship w this dude for 3 years that was also messin w this other girl at my school...I just let it continue and stayed w. him because it was convenient... Grant it it was stupid, but I had to wait till I was ready or until i hit rock bottom to realize I finally needed to nip it in the bud. So now when i tell a girl that "they don't need that n@gga..." I share my story w. them to hopefully give them strength.... sorry if that was sappy, lol!!!
What's with all the woman-bashing posts? Can we get some love up in this piece, PLEASE!
I think the problem is that some women just don't realie their self-worth. Once a woman understands everything that she has to offer and recognizes how great she is, it will be very hard for any guy to do some dirt and her to take him back easily.
Also, we must remember that there is a shortage of available black men.
And liars get NO LOVE! At least if you are honest with your cheating, I can't be mad at my friend for putting up with your sh*t...but if you lie, you are a coward!
That is all...
oh yeah, I'm late...but it's been a hard a$$ week at work!
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