BRAGGING RIGHTS
So as I sit here and reflect on somethings.. This came to mind... how many of you pick a person to be in a relationship with for what I call "bragging rights". Now don't get me wrong, we all want to be with someone who's worthy... but how many of you are guilty of being with a person just for the fact of being able to say "yeah that's me". Wanting someone you know other people want just so folks will be jealous or envy you? People get off on that type of excitement. I can't front, I have done it before, and I'm sure it has been done to me cause I'm that dude... but that's another blog! Lol. But seriously be dead honest with your comments... who has or is doing this right now?
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Man...Guilty as charged! I've done it, and it was the worst relationship I've ever been in...I put up with a lot of pretty girl shit! She had a big ass too...but that pretty girl complex is enough to make anybody say good-bye!
hmmm i could make "not that dude" turn into "that dude" so ive never tried to come up off a trophy type dude b4. on the other hand i think ive been done like that b4 and its pointless..u caint trophy a chick who u caint keep on a shelf...
Well, that must be a man thing...cause I don't know to many women, real women! Who would be with a man for bragging rights, women take relationships more serious than that. Its not always about the appearance and the material things its about the mental and so much more that a person can bring. Why would we be with someone just to say i had him....NOT REAL WOMEN!!!!! That must be the way men think!!!!! Cause I don't give a hell about who they are or what they have.....I gets my own... so if ever in life i fux with someone it's not because of who they are it's because of so much more!!!!!!!
wat dwn louisiana n dis bitch boy!!! man i fuc these hoes,afta hour showz,wit da legs in da air, then i hit her wit da paid in full duggie fresh..... and oh yea every pussy i MURDER!!!!! is TROPHY.... go 4 da gooooooooooooooooooold!!!
Lets keep it all the way real...not All, but a lot of women get married on this type of shit! Life be all fuckd up, but be planning a big ass wedding to let they girlfriends or family see they got somebody...Or lying, got they ppl thinking they got a man, but if he only comes over at night and is gon before the morn, you're just a fuck partner...its the same type shit...you frontin
......this statement is in no way directed toward anyone, just an observation of frontin ass women I've encountered......
I agree with Austin, I have even seen one chick steal another chick's man away just to say she could do it. Me on the other hand, yes I have had a "Trophy Girl" before. People would compliment me on my taste, other women would wonder what I did to get her. At the time I liked all the attention that I was getting, but the feeling faded after awhile, because she was dumb as a stump, and we had nothing in common. She was just my little piece of eye candy.
In my Clay Davis VOICE.....SHEEEEEEEEEEEEET! OF Course I have....in fact most niggas do it....i know niggas right now in this military doing it RIGHT NOW...sidebar....im snitching...LMAO...but fo real, ive done that shit way too many times, you know....trying to get that approval rating from the fam..friends, co-workers...etc...You ignore all the obvious and you put up with soooooooo much in order to shine & show that trophy!
By the way....what happened to FR3SH TALK THIS WEEK Austin Martin! LMAO....yall mos def couldve spoke more on this topic.....good one Breezy!
I think Jill Scott said it best..."it takes more then diamonds to woo me it takes more then money to move me, it takes more than materials things to get me going!!!!!!!!! It takes more than cars to get me where i need to go"!!!!!
Isn't Jill Scott single again???
jill scott is engaged again, to some1 in her band
shiiiiiiiiit... that's what the Penn standard is all about!! That's the way I'm built. I always try and date ppl i could potentially go to red carpet events with. Some of em is eff'd up besides their looks and u find that out by spending time with em, but ya'll will never... lemme repeat... YA'LL WILL NEVER CATCH Bannekar with a low totem pole chick...
PENN, you a fool! lol
Im guilty....and it was the worst relationship I ever had...I will never do it again...
and wow PENN!!!!
Penn standard huh??lol
Jill Scott got that paper already, so she straight. Real Talk, with most women you gonna need least 2 or 3 of them things on that list. Aint that right Donz. Hhmmmmmmmm!
yeah im guilty as well pretty girls can be such a problem cause their pretty and they know it so Im a stop looking at thier face and judge em from the neck down lol
I think some of us are Superficial to a certain degree.Im guilty, and like some of you all said it was the worst relationship everrrr! I've done and have been done and at the end of the day it SUCKS!~ That one you passed up to be with the TROPHY, may have been the best thing for you!
I passed up on the coolest girl ever (she was still cute tho) to be with this other girl (she was cute too) just b/c she could sing etc. I thought I was bout to be on some Hov and Beyonce shit... Needless to say, that aint work out and now the coolest girl ever is on my "the one that got away" list
Penn...she'll be back...they always come back!
PENN lmao @ low totem poll chick!
Mr. Austin that's just str8 up fabrication! Meanwhile Donzarelli talkn bout approval ratings LMFAO! ...if i ever wanna know what the heck guys r thinkn bout...read a FR3SH SPOT blog!
"the one that got away" list..wowwwwwwww here i am thinkn thats some special place (the one that got away), and it's just on another list! lmao! wowwww
they always come back tho?!?!?! like we some stray dogs or somethin...
k.michele.......hunny i was just SMH! "come back?"
this is def fr3sh talk material...get ready ya'll!
Been there Done that ! Its something all of us did once in your life. Like what the rest of yall said it was the worst, ugliest, miserable,and time wasting relationship I had in my life. I would had a better time jerkin off with icy n hot than dealing with that shit. But at the same time it is a learning experience I had to go thru.
As we grow as adult when learn the beauty comes from within a soul and most of us learn the most hardest way with the outer beautiful sometime. Which can be the devil in a great sales outfit lol !
I believe looking a person as a Trophy , Dime ,and the rest of the made up bs out there is fucin waste of oxygen and time blown that person head up....Plus that person can be the down fall of your well being too. Because that "TROPHY" can be a emotional reck , high mant. chick or just a plain evil smitch and the one that care and love you is looking at you shake head with shame or taken. We live and learn .......
@ Donzarelli, I'm dead at the clay Davis voice.
@ al, you are SO right about the wedding piece. It's really too bad.
At Felicia, you represent everything that's right with the world, but uh... I'm not perfect.
So to answer the question, hell yeah I do this, 'cause I want it all. Pretty face, pretty pockets, pretty family ('cause be for real, I need the probability of ugly kids to be zero), pretty personality, pretty tall, pretty dark, pretty handsome, pretty nice to me.
It's also a myth that just because you're pretty you can't be all of those other things. I'm with Donzarelli SHIIIIIIIIIIIIID.
Nah I've never done that, but It was done to me, he felt bad after it all, he apologized, I got over it and moved on.
Jay Jay Almighty, Im feeling your comment dude! Good choice of words...
Well I've done it b4!!! Point blank period I think everybody has just afraid to admit it!!! Talked to a the star b-ball player in high school just to say I talked to him!!! Hahaha!!! Or dated the most popular guy to say I did!!!
happens to me all the time (like 8 of 10 times) & yes I've done it b4. prolly wud do it again..at least until mr. restofmylife comes along. ;)
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