WHY???
Why do women feel the need to address women that their man knows as bitches, hoes and groupies?? I don't get it at all... Just b/c YOU don't know the girl, she gotta be all that?? She could genuinely be a friend and the guy may have known her for 10 years but as soon as she is addressed by the woman she gotta be a "hoe". Do you feel threatened by somebody you don't know? Actually, there are instances when the women know the girl and what she is about and you will still call her a hoe... Or if women see another woman calling their man's phone they have to say "that bitch (insert name) called... And then when we say "why she gotta be all that", it turns into a whole new debate b/c you get accused of stickin up for the so called "bitch"... So ladies, to you I ask... "WTF is wrong with yall besides the obvious??"
Comments please...
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Women know women better than ANY man! They know that them other hoes is not to be trusted...ask a woman does she have any friends...you will get the classic response, "I don't fuck with females like that...bitches keep up too much drama"...they don't trust each other, and for good fuckn reason!
Church Mr. Austin Church!!!!!
In some instances tho, it can be an issue of insecurity... they could feel threatened that someone is after that spot, especially if they have not been handling business at home... its like if you are secure with self, then you don't need to do all the extra antics to make yourself seem bigger. That's how I move, I would never even talk about another dude cause that aint my place, my place is to handle like a man, do what I need to do to be the #1 and if she effs up her loss... thus... security.
aint know way in hell the nicca who i swap spit w/ and other various bodily fluids gonna be able to introduce me to a female who deserves a lifetime achievement award for friendship & I aint never heard of her previously!?!?! BS!! that's y i might refer to some chick u randomly tryna pass of as "ya homegirl" as "da fan club" if she fam i would know her...umm cuz she fam! nowadays chix spittn iceberg slim game...mess around one of ya so called homegirls will have yo azz out here "walkn inbetween raindrops to get that scratch" if i tell my mans to back off a chick it aint gotta be cuz im hatn or gel, it might be cuz im tryna save my dude from gettn gorilla pimped! chile please!
I've had instances where the girl had clear knowledge of me being cool with this girl since the beginning of time and she still wanna come at her sideways. I think is a combination of what Breeze said, women do that shit cuz they insecure and be scared the other got somethin better than she got
great explination...but honestly these niggaz could grow ears the way they be trikkn! real cereal box ass dudes...ever considered ya chick tryna save u!...or u dont wanna be saved?! lmao! on the real tho like one of my bf's is a dude (no blood relation) and if a dude i get it in w/ gotta prob w/ my brotha then he can scratch me too...that's what u do for a brotha not no random azz dude im tryna pass off. but women are insecure so i could imagine...i date "spotlights" so i have no time for insecurity. My advice: k-mart gotta blue light special on BIZNESS in aisle 3 get ya girl some & she wont worry bout yours! that's a two-for-one & Big'K's take ebt!
I gotta agree with Kelz Renee...If I'm your girl and some chick is regularly calling you and I don't know who she is, something is wrong with that picture. I don't even like for no chicks to THINK that they doing something, so that would need to be nipped ASAP! I wouldn't necessarily call her a hoe, but if it walk like it, talk like it...
I do have a tendency to call some chicks I don't know hoes. But not because I think they are actually hoes. For example, I saw some other chicks who had my name "Rayna". My response was "Who are these hoes with my name!?" It depends on the situation....
Rayna sound like Katt Williams "I just call u bitches b/c I don't know ya names individually" lol
Unfortunately, referring to women overall as "bitches" and "hoes," or even just as "females," has become acceptable in everyday conversation. Guys, how many times have you referred to a woman as a bitch, and meant nothing in reference to her personality, attitude or demeanor - you didn't even mean it as an insult at all, it just came out that way. What was once derogatory has become natural. But I do agree with the other ladies that if you have a friendship with someone and it's that deep, why wouldn't you're significant other know about her? If you have nothing to hide put it out in the open...There's a thin line between insecurity and intuition, but no one can peep a woman's game better than another woman.
We all see where yall are coming from, but why don't one of the ladies touch on what Penn said... he said its been times where the girl has been in clear knowledge of who the other chick was and still refer to her as a bitch or hoe? And I know this for sure cause it has happened to me as well... anyone care to explain?
Why in the FUCK do my woman need to know any and everybody I come in contact with...My woman might tell me about her male friends, but she damn sure aint gon say shit about the ones that are tryn to or already BONED her, or the ones she wanna Fuck! Ladies mind your own damn business! Let's be honest...Those women are potentials to take your spot, just like the dudes in your phone are potentials...if a chick or a dude aint work fuckn with, a nigga or a female aint gon store the number in the phone...what you have believed is true...something is going on! So what! 9 times out of 9 you got some sucka that will laugh at your jokes and hear you talk down your man over the phone so he can get a chance to Chris Brown you...(take you down)
OH,OH,OH BREEZE maybe because wifey knew homegirl was a HO...its ya homegirl that's a HO..that wouldnt be ya wiz fault that YO HOMEGIRL is A HO (would it???) regardless of the fact she takn that "all in the fam" role! 99% of the mofo dudes who claim to be my bro either A)is the homies of my man who caint holla on a technicality or B)dudes who i would straight up tell, "i look at u like my bruh" even tho i failed to mention lookn at them any other way would result in =VOMIT
**Mr Austin no female would give a dam about a number or another female if she never came in contact! the prime way ya wiz gonna mind her dam biz is if u keep yo dam biz to yaself! dont be sloppy!
and as far as another women ever takn another women "role" what the hell is this??? "RENT" a dam stageplay musical? No time for dress rehearsal this shyt is live! if a chick take my role...the freakn sitcom was prolly a wash anyway! season canceled! send that shyt to dvd! holla! lmao! chick take my role??? ***real laughter**** poor lady prolly picked up my ex-headache
I agree with Penn,Breeze, and Sandinthecity. Most of the time its being insecure! Women love to be "CATTY" for whatever reason. Women gon` be women. I've heard women say I don't fuck with females or I dont like chicks! I wouldnt say that but I do pick the ones who I kick it with and you right Al, for good reasons. Me and my girls are all different and have different tastes in men. Some women dont know how to except that fact that their dude has female friends. Get over it already!!!
And hell naw I dont feel threatend by somebody I dont know! Why should I. If you dont like me for whatever your reasons "OH WELL HOMIE!"...
I don't have an answer, but y'all come up with some excellent questiosn in here.
Kelz Renee' I'm so diggin your statement right now. If some other chick is taking over the main one's role, then the main one prolly isn't fulfilling all her girl friendly duties.
And men...if you see your woman is getting a lil insecure...how come you can't reassure her that everythings cool!? Women like their heads pumped up just like ya'll
So..lotta great comments goin on here. I hafta add this food 4 thawt...
- some women are just products of what they learn from other women. no deep underlying reason, if refering 2 other chicks as hoes & bitches is the norm, then thats wat i'd expect them 2 do(altho it's jus not ladylike)
- yes, i can attribute it to insecurity in some situations, but most times its like others have said...just a term 2 refer to a 'bitch' who's name ya dont know..doesn't mean she's a hoe
- yes, if ur gurl is lackin...tell her a$$! deal with the argument, but appreciate that she'll either try harder 2 do better, or that u @ least told her, so ur future actions are almost justified
- do encourage ur special lady. and do make it clear who ur homegirls are, BUT know that sum of yall kats use the homegirl term for women yall actually fuckin, just as women use terms for dudes they givin it up to. Me personally, i just take note. I may not call u on it, but some women will let that grow 2 suspicions and then all ur homegirls are hoes cuz they don't know which one it is...lol
My question?? How many of ur homegirls wud u touch down with if given the opportunity? And if u'd do any of them, does that mean she's really just ur homegirl?
Toy Monique, love your comment girl, well spoken!
My question?? How many of ur homegirls wud u touch down with if given the opportunity? And if u'd do any of them, does that mean she's really just ur homegirl?
Toy Monique did that...and i guess the male answer is...that's still the homegirl (that i can smash)
**which is y she a ho!
CLEARLY..... This is a good old fashion case of INSECURITY. I feel like this, real talk, WOMEN and WOMEN only... If your grown, grown people dont have time to worry about the small stuff. Honestly, if you doing what you suppose to do to keep your man's attention then he wont drift......(think about it). If you a real WOMAN going to work every day, grinding, and taking care of your business, you dont have time to be chasin your man, and his phone....that's what GIRLS do, WOMAN don't have the time. If your man has told you the deal about ol' girl,and yal are still having problems, that says something about the level of trust between the two of you in your relationship. When your confident with yourself other WOMEN see it and respect you. Women dont have time entertain little girls and there B*S*. I know I dont..... Furthermore if your man has explained the situation to you(GF), and has been honest what more do you need?? Trust, whatever your man is doing in the dark, if there is something being done, will come to the light. You wont have to go lookin for it, and you will have the opportunity to address it, as the oppportunity will appear(SPEAKINGFROM EXPERIENCE). In closing, If you still have concerns after talkin with your man, or wanna know whats really good. Be a WOMAN and adress the WOMAN (hoe or whatever makes you feel better so you can disguise the girl/BITCH or HOE in you), and stop whining, solve your problem. Be direct girlie, the WOMAN might actually respect you for it. Real WOMEN will read this and agree, and continue to handle they business. All the GIRLS who read this will get even more mad and continue to bitch to they men. Which one are you??
MS.HOUSTON
It all goes back to "if you look for it you are going to find it!" Going through phones, e-mails, etc. is just plain trouble. And if the other person really cares about what you will find, they will just delete it anyway! I don't remember who said it, but if you're guy don't give you a reason to suspect anything, then don't!
Also, for the guys, if some chick is doing a better job than your girl, let your girl go! Don't keep me around if you freakin some other chick and she is the one you really want. Don't waste my time. And maybe that is another reason why women make a big deal out of coed relationships. If you feel like you getting something out of that you can't get from me, don't waste my time! And like Mr. Austin stated, women know women. I know some women will gladly wait in the wings until your man decides to change the leading lady. So if that's the case, again, just let me go!
WOMEN STAND UP! POWERFUL WORDS COURTNEY AND RAYNA. I LOVE THIS. I GOTTA KEEP COMMENTING ON COMMENTS! THIS TOPIC IS REAL AND THE MAIN REASON SOME WOMEN DONT GET ALONG! LET US "WOMEN DO WHAT WE DO" AND KEEP IT PUSHIN!!!!!!!!!!!
KELZ RENE STILL SPITTN THAT FIYAH!
plan~b~ im like u ...comment on the comment... Standing ovation for Rayna! If a dude aint feeling me....walk! Do both us a favor! Courtney came through w/ the good ol fashion woman to woman! i have gotten a couple of those call..."the do u know my man calls" and the killa is...u dam real i know em & u know i know em cuz u calln! and when i tell you the truth (75% sliding scale) you still aint gonna wanna hear it's "studio related" we "work" together....so i say take a survey with me, but interrogate ya baby daddy! even k.michele said, "how come you can't reassure her that everythings cool!? Women like their heads pumped up just like ya'll...see the fellas was thinkn we wasnt gonna have the same mind track but we all thinkn respectfullly ITS DEM HOZ THAT DONT GET IT! LMAO!
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