WHY???
Why are women so stubborn and drag stuff out longer than it needs to be?? And how come when yall wrong and we call you on it, you try and call us out on something or make up something trivial about us that's all of a sudden bothering you?? Now, we know we wrong a large percentage of the time (I won't put a number to that cuz I don't wanna give the ladies no additional ammo for their next argument with their man...) but in the times that we are right and yall KNOW WE RIGHT, how come yall just won't take it like a G, man up, admit you was wrong and keep it movin??? Let me know... And listen to Fr3sh Girl!!!!!!!
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Ok, so I'll admit it, I've been guilty of draggin it out. But I just want to make sure I say everything I have to say so it can be done with! So just listen and nod and then we'll be cool! Lol
Yes, i agree to a point that women can be stubborn....but men are the ones who never see any wrong in what they do or say and getting them to admit it is impossible! And for all your actions you guys play the blame game and always say its our fault for the things u did or said. We some times just want to hear you say "I was wrong" and acknowledge what has happened...and the only reason we drag stuff out because you never want to discuss the matter and try to change the subject....Because hey, we are right anyway!!!
i dont wanna drag NATHIN out! I just need a dude to know U AINT SLICK! yeah i get on my Dick Vitale play by play account of the situation! But so dam what! tell da truth & u wont get caught in a lie! on the other hand speak or 4ever hold ya peace! if im getn on yo azz about ABC...please miss me with the XYZ about my problems! I can only deal w/ one F up per convo! ....Rayna & Felicia I feel u
That's a prime example... see how easily this got shifted from talking about women not owning up to their F ups to its usually the guys fault anyway? Its just like this, a woman has a harder time admitting she's wrong because she doesn't want to feel like she doesn't have power... women are far more stubborn than men, cause a man will take the blame for something he didn't do just to get back to peace and sanity, never in the history of life has a woman did that. I have caught so many girls up in so much, and the first thing out of their mouth is "whatever". I even had one chick tell me if she did something that caused us to split, she wouldn't even try to make it right.... that's just stubborn and assholish! A man will admit when he's wrong and apologize, whereas a woman will most likely try to justify her wrong doing! Point is this... just own up to your faults and life will be easier....
hee-hee-hee IM WRONG, IM WRONG, IM WRONG, IM SORRY, IM SORRY....when u tell a man sorry instead of the male response being, "o.k. moving foreward whoopti-woo" it's gonna be I TOLD U SO, U AINT SHYT, THATS Y I DONT MESS WIT RED WOMEN (a real classic line)...so now that i re-visit and reflect saying SORRY is challenging! but the killa is WHEN I SAY IM SORRY,WHAT CAN I DO TO RIGHT MY WRONG...that aint good enough! Dude wanna see you sob in your imperfections instead of seeing you bask in your self improvement~ and what i wont say sorry about is....SHYT MY MATE DO ANYWAY! u want me to say sorry because i been outta town (not w/ DA fam) WORKN for a week but YO AZZ gettn back on a flight when i land! I MEAN SHAWTY!?!?!?!
yeah but you know what... u aint really sorry if u turn around and do the same shit over in like 3 days. how in the hell is that being truly sorry if u do it again? that blows me about girls too!!! and i think guys admit when they are wrong b/c its hard enuff to talk to yall about regular shit rather than have yall argue a mute point into the ground. we dont want no extra elongated friction if we can avoid it! lol
I agree with all of you. One I don't want to admit when I am wrong because I feel like I have lost power (Sad but true). Two I don't like to get hit with the "I told you so" after I apologize and third if I do it again I either was not sorry in the first place and just wanted him to shut the f up about it or I slipped up. As far as it being hard to talk about stuff it depends on the female that you are dealing with. Communication is the key, you suppose to be able to talk to your mate like they yo bestfriend. If you can't communicate than there is no relationship.
Marky breeze says "men will admit when he's is wrong and apologize" welcome to the one percent, ladies...and if they apologize its just to get us to shut up! and "whatever" is the best way to say get out of our faces with your lies! Also, were not talking about women being wrong were talking about men!(cause a large percent of the time you are wrong)....and even when we are wrong we still have to have the last word after we apologize...Cause it aint over till we say its over!!!!!!!!!! lmao
Kelz Renee knows who Dick Vitale is...will admit she's wrong, and will also apologize...Why GOD made only one of her is beyond me...I hate to argue, so I'll take an "L" just so she can shut the fuck up...the last thing I need is someone that I grow less fond of with every sexual encounter nagging me about somethin that I did that pleased ME! In relationships the shit we do that pleases us usually hurts the other person...all the way from buying new shoes to fuckin new ppl, so get out while you can guys...don't worry where your next shot of ass is coming from! You can still get the sex without the title!!! Human are sluts, you guaranteed some lets get back together sex, this aint gon work sex, and some TREY SONGZ last time sex...and if you lucky they might still call after that til they can find another constant nut...
Well when I said the whatever line it was in reference to catching a woman up on something... like if you catch your girl in a lie and she know she wrong, she'll straight hit you with the whatever. Thank you Denise for being real enough to admit the truth... Kelz the type niggas that throw shit back at you on some I told you so are exactly that... NIGGAS. Men aint got time for that. Penn.. You hit another valid point, when women do shit, they will turn around and do the same shit again... why? For the simple fact they didn't care about being wrong...
Ok ima hit it right here... tell me if I'm right or wrong.. Women don't admit when they are wrong because of the history that men have generally been wrong so much its programmed for a woman to be right in her own mind. Case in point when you tell a female you and your girl broke up, the first thing she ask is "what did you do" automatically placing fault on you, so its hard for them to see their own wrongs. And Felecia's statement was a prime example of that "cause large percent of the time you are wrong" its programmed for women to be right... and that my friends is WRONG!!!!
dude vs chick WRONGS....check & balances I aint never gonna be wrong for some shyt i do one time that's a part of your genetic make-up! ex...u flirt all the dam time, i get over it.i flirt once U WANNA CRUCIFY ME! hell no!
****Breeze u dam real, women get so use to the cycle of being "right" we dont cognitively process the "rightness" in anything that is testoterone driven! (wow that was a real BRA BURNING statement & i aint the type...hahaha)
I HAVE HAD MY SHARE OF UPS AND DOWNS WITH MEN BUT I WILL ADMIT I WASNT ALWAYS RIGHT. I KNOW WHEN IM WRONG, AND I WILL APOLOGIZE, THAT ONE TIME FOR MY WRONG WETHER IT BE SOMETHING I DID OR SAID.
ALL THAT DRAGIN IT OUT JUST MAKES MATTERS WORST. ALL THAT ARGUIN AND SHIT IS UNCALLED FOR. ADMIT THAT YOU WERE WRONG AND BE DONE WITH IT. IT DOESNT HAVE TO TURN INTO A JERRY SPRINGER SHOW!!!
DENISE I FEEL YOU ON COMMUNICATION, BUT SOME FOLKS DONT KNOW HOW TO DO THAT!
NO ONE REALLY WANTS TO ADMIT THAT THEY ARE WRONG, BUT AT THE END OF THE DAY, "I FEEL BETTER ABOUT IT"!
Hot topic! I don't make a habit of lying to men, so I can't say that I've gotten caught up in a lie without admitting it was a lie. Once you caught up, don't you HAVE to admit you're wrong? Mark, I don't know who you're dealing with, but that's like taking a purse out of the store without paying for it, holding in your hand, then saying, I don't have the purse. It's dumb as hell!
But in any other situation (i.e. not lying) women have a hard time admitting we're wrong because we honestly don't believe we're wrong. Men lay out "men logic" and that doesn't make good sense to us, which results in an argument, cause "women logic" doesn't make sense to y'all. Sometimes you just have to agree to disagree.
"women logic" basically revolves around the fact that they think they are right all the time and that's the fundamental problem with women logic...
yall dont really wanna know what I think... but imma tell yall anyway. I like most men here and around the world have did the cop out and said "you know what; you right and im sorry" but the older i get the more i realize that i cant continue to apologize just to shut you up! You wrong you wrong and if im wrong im wrong. either we fix it or find a way to agree to disagree or we dont need to be. I cant keep listening to that nagging shit about an argument we had 2 years ago (elephant ass memories)so you can inflate yo ego and boost your esteem. and yall wonder why i said i wanna women who gonna put her mouth right here, fix a sandwich and not get on my nerves. Like i said, we can have a CONVERSATION, or COMMUNICATE, but i aint bout to get nagged and talked to
Penn "men logic" revolves around the fact that you all usually can't connect point A to B because you're so angry you're just hearing whatever you want to hear. I feel you, but men logic and women logic will always be different, so we're always going to disagree and someone's going to have to take one for the team.
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T, men can't connect the points of A to B with women b/c yall used the most fucked up and illogical reasoning to get from point A to B. If point B is down the street and all you have to do is drive straight, then y the hell do yall have to go to the bus stop, train station, airport, and dock to just go down the street?? So in that whole process yall lose us instead of keeping that shit simple and thats why we get lost aka dont care bout what you talkin about and just take one for the team so yall stop talkin...
Penn back off T cuzzzzz. It aint like no age old secret that men & women think different. You'd spend your time more wisely poppin bubble wrap then tryna review that demo! Now that we know from A to B is two different routes its like...deal with it! when i hear a man talk; i already know he gonna leave out all the shyt that i think is important!when a dude hear me talk i already know he dont give 2 shyts about the fact that the person that im discussing use to work at Macy's and date my baby daddy little sister,i crossed her az over sumthn awful on senior kut day, bitch stutter and i caint stand her! BUT IMA TELL IT ANYWAY cuz ima a woman! who cares that the maps read different if the dam chart is eventually gonna get yall both to POINT B!?!?!?!? its a genetic malfunction YOUR WIFE IS NOT GONNA THINK LIKE U, JUST LIKE YA BABY MAMA OR GIRLFRIEND DONT NOW! all a man gotta do is like remember the dam Thesis & like two supporting facts (of any convo) and charlie brown the rest of the dam convo (womp, womp, womp, womp) & THE PENIS WILL WIN! I aint even mean to go Lego's (building) on yall this dam early in the morn...SOMEBODY GET ME A PEPSI!
Kelz, the difference is Time! Ours is short and to the point. Yall's is wack and too long. Just like that long ass post you just wrote that I almost didnt finish lol jk... Nah, seriously the "worked at Macy's baby daddy..." part was funny as hell lol
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