I'M A FLIRT...
We all flirt... let's not even deny that fact and we prolly have all engaged in some conversations that we shouldn't at times or conversations that significants wouldn't be happy about but its all just words right?? As long as it stays on paper and you don't act on it (or get caught for those that do act on it) it should be all good, right? I mean really... who doesn't flirt or see someone on the other side of the fence that they wouldn't mind talkin, flirtin with a lil bit, or gettin at em on the low. Or is flirtin cheating on a smaller scale or is there no difference? Even further, do you think a male and a female can ever be purely just friends without any kind of flirting ever taking place between the two?? They say the name of the game is don't get caught if you out there like that and I'm sure we have all played the game at one point or another...
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I think everybody flirts whether you know it or not and anybody that says they don't is a lie and a half. Even if somebody that you could care less about talks to you on a daily basis I'm sure there are goin to be some instances of some flirtin takin place. I don't think you can ever get away from having a purely straight conversation with a member of the opposite sex (especially you have frequent contact with the same person) in this sex driven society. Is it cheating, in my book now, but it definitely can lead to cheating
Te'Ara said...
"i think a male and female can be friends but the man might try to test the waters and see if they can be more but once they know there can be nothing more and everyone has that understanding i think they can be friends. now for the flirting.... I think some people take it tooooo far. i know men are visual creatures and they might say hi or do something flirtatious to another female or a female might see a male and like what they see and flirt but exchanging numbers and talking and hanging out and kissing sex now that is considered cheating. you need to be upfront with your partner if you have female or male friends and not be sneaky about it and if you don't get caught yes you are still cheating. that is why i think people have to be careful when they flirt and they have to know not to take it too far but if you know it will lead to something more than you shouldn't flirt at all to avoid possible cheating and complications in your relationship with your significant other."
I'm a flirt. I like to flirt to see if I still got it. It ain't cheating unless you go to far and have a sexual relationship with the person. What my man don't know won't hurt. I am not married so I can flirt I probably will not flirt but until then i will have fun and flirt it helps me to figure out what type of guy I like.
flirting is not cheating (record scratch)??? DUMMY STATEMENT!!! WRONG IS WRONG! if u wouldn't do it in front of your partner ITS WRONG! So just admit that "wrong" feels good, and don't waste ya time tryna dum it down! The term ***platonic*** is 4 suckaz! u either wanna kut, AND WILL, or wanna kut AND CAINT! long*story*short ill never be in a relationship with a man that other women wouldnt flirt with(my dudez swag be on a hundred), so im ready for all that it comes with! me???? i made a name for myself because i keep it biz, when i do flirt the lucky dude and errybody in the room know, "yo this dude must have G cuz Kelz don't chop it up w/ errydbody (aka Mz No Appointment)!"
TELLEM KELZ, WRONG IS WRONG! LOL
BE "UP FRONT" FROM THE GIDDY UP!
BUT LIKE WE ALL SAID, FLIRTING CAN GO WAAAY TOOO FAR...
IF YOUR IN A "RELATIONSHIP", (A REAL ONE)ALL "IN LOVE", BE IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP AND LEAVE ME ALONE!!!, DONT EVEN APPROACH ME... I MIGHT LIKE WHAT I SEE AND FLIRT BACK, CONVERSATE, CAUSE NOW IM UNDER FALSE PRETENSES, AND THUS THIS CREATES PROBLEMS DOWN THE LINE. SOME MEN ARE SOOO SLOPPY.
DONT NEED THE GIRLFRIEND ASKIN ME WHO I AM... BEING SINGLE (BOTH PARTIES) AND FLIRTING OR WHATEVER, ALL GOOD... IF NOT, BEAT YO FEET HOMIE...
CAN MEN AND WOMEN JUST BE FRIENDS?
WELL IF WE WERENT FRINDS BEFORE THEN..... UNLESS HES GAY AND WE CAN HANG OUT LMAO
plan~b, "DONT NEED THE GIRLFRIEND ASKIN ME WHO I AM"...bcuz obviously she know if she askn!
I'm a flirt too. It's harmless (for the most part).
An attractive man and woman can't ever really be "just" friends. Now if one of the people is ugly, then yeah, platonic relationships are more than possible.
If you'll flirt, you'll go! The tongue is powerful, and curiousity kills the cat...and once you kill that cat, and use that powerful tongue, she'll be at work bringing you food she cooked at home for lunch, and then she'll start complaining about how she don't think shit gonna work out with her and her guy...then she gon start getting mad when females stop by your desk at work or wanna know why this bitch always smiling at you and she aint even your women, matter of fact she livin with a nigga...look, don't flirt! Trust me
Damn Mr. Austin... bad experience? Like he said tho... don't flirt in you aint ready for the consequences... cause in the heat of a moment firtin will have you caught up before you know it... and why can't an 2 attractive people be good friends? What if she's attractive but not in the mans eyes and vice versa??? And who's to say if you and an "ugly" friend are in the 4th quarter with 36 seconds on the clock and you down by one... you gon take that easy bucket to win!!! Chuuuuuuuuuch! Cause everybody done did something with an ug-mo before! Don't lie... be real!
Hell yeah! I know I have, and I'm not ashame either...she had a big ass...And I sexed her like I had just got out the joint! Hittn it from the back screaming G-G-G-G-G UNIT to the top of my lungs!!! Real Talk, I done had pretty and not so pretty...but if I have to choose a group as a package to deal with FOREVER I'm rolln with the ug-moes! Cuz that pretty girl shit is a muthafucka
Oh yeah, a lot of pretty chicks insecure too! You gotta tell'em how pretty they are like 19 times a day or they think you don't love'em...it's too much to deal with...P.S. the prettiest chick I ever been with we had the wackiest sex life...She would'nt let me pull the good hair, ashamed that her ass was'nt phat, so I could'nt get it from the back...the was strike 2,3, and 4!!! You don't have to deal with that shit on the other side of the fence
wouldn't date a pretty chick ?.?.?. wowwwww! like i refuse to date light skin dudes! brown paper bag complected or betta***ROTF****
Bad experiences with them...good looking out on phazen out the light skin dudes!!! Barack Obama and Chris Brown been puttn the hurt on us the last couple years...Im a ol' coffee bean complected brotha myself!
P.A. please keep women who think Chris Brown is "sexy" away from toddlerz! Signing out!
I think flirting is cool....there's nothing more funny then flirting with someone and then blowing them off when they try to holla.lol....that let's you know that you got it, and if you have someone at home u should know your limits.....not to enter the danger zone. And maybe woman and men can be friends cause women like having male friends but with me they always try to cross the line! what's up with that?
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