NATE'S KNOWLEDGE
Trust is a very important thing in a relationship. Sometimes more important than love. I notice that a lot of people who are affluent marry for business purposes and because they trust that significant other and see what that person can contribute to the cause and the growth of a brand rather than love. To quote a very famous song, whats love got to do wit it? Do you follow your heart even when it may very well lead you to a place where you are stifled or marry for power. Someone who is like minded and goal oriented and would push you to be a better person and more well rounded? The more I work in this industry the more I see the appeal of power over love. Chris rock had a joke that new pussy cant cook, but when you read into that statement you notice the implication of that. Do you really follow your heart or follow your heart of hearts? Stay with a person for love or stay with a person who can bring something to the table that you need? Is that being with each other working together for a common goal or just using each other to get to where you wanna be? Love don't pay bills and new pussy cant cook... So which is healthy, a relationship that might further both people or love that might be a big but and a smile..lol so what she fine as shit and can make a mean sandwich or he remembers your birthday and slings that thing, what about everything else?
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Pt.1)white women marry for money, black women marry for love- (01' frame of mind) A woman will learn to love the hand that feeds her so if she marries for power/money she aint takn a loss (necessarily) Pt.2) The man that loves you will "wife" you...not "girlfriend" your azz to death! Men...handle ya 3 p's...Protect, Provide, & please dammit i love lil black babies (3rd p) Procreate! Men caint confuse I love her (and over time)u caint provide...NO NICCA U LIKE HER! me personally im to dam fly to take an "L" Mamacita needs mucho dinero! Comprenda Muchaho? yeah yall know i speak SPANGLISH! plus (++++) ALL THE LOVE!!! CMON now aint no point of being in love and powerless/broke for too long...the insecurities pour like rain in those situations!
(Dave Chapelle voice) What the fuck is LOVE...Evryone is marrying for something other than love...thats why that sister who loves that nigga who cant stay out of jail leaves him...she needs more than love...Love don't do shit but help you gain weight, whether you knocked up with his baby, or stayin in the house evrynite up under her...
What's crazy is, Love is so many different things but its really simple once you think about it. But ppl go and fuck it up when they try and tie feelings that don't directly line up with Love (aka she got some good p*ssy or he got some good dick). So then, and a lot of times, we get all these variations of love and quite frankly we got so many definitions now who really knows what love is??
love is definitively abstract..because its an action word!
Love is ignorance at its highest level...you're too blind to see the obvious...I really dont believe in love...its just a statement...once you say it, you have to act accordingly...when you like someone you accept that they may have fallin asleep and didnt answer their phone...but oh LORD when you SAY you love them...you wondering who the FUCK they laid up with or anything else that might be goin on that may hurt you...The way we love actually takes the focus off we and puts it on I or me...Love is selfish, because you're actually more concerned with your own feelins rather than whomever you CLAIM to love...
dang black men scorned...yall need a hug
Al, that might be the truest shit ever written. It actually makes me wonder if the only thing I ever loved is this music. Think about it, music really hasn't given me (us) shit really, but yet we spend our time, money, and energy to this idea of music. Music has bashed and beaten us time and time again and yet we come back to it the very next day. That might be the purest ideal I can think of to describe love.
Kelz i wouldnt say we scorned. maybe its just too much unneeded bs that comes along with it and we dont fux with that aspect of it... just an observation
Kelz, I was just stating that Love is something we do to ourselves. If I say something I have to be extreme about it to make you believe me...so if I say I love you, I have to go above and beyond to show you my love is true...
wow... yall spitting hot fire in here today.. thefr3shspot one of the best things to hit the internet since porn... and thats some sincere shit..
o...k when muzik kix yo azz u come back to it...when a relationship kix ur azz its unneeded bs...(now datz da real observation) MEN FIGHT FOR WHAT THEY WANT (its genetic)...when u really want a woman ull treat her like u treat muzik....NOW GET OFF MY COUCH! lol luv u guys!
If someone truly Loves you they will be able to provide for you in every way possible. Mr. Austin I disagree with your comment you see fake Love is all of those things that you mentioned if someone truly Loves you they are not selfish and they care about their partners needs just as much as their own if not more than their own. To be honest you have to care about yourself first and Love yourself first before you can Love anyone else. How can you say you Love your partner but you don't like yourself that is some psycho love and if someone tells you that they Love you and have a problem with loving themself than you better run cause you have a fatal attraction on your hands. IF you love someone you are suppose to trust them and if you can't trust them you don't Love them or maybe you know they were not shit in the beginning you just liked something about them.
The problem is that a lot of people that claim to be in love have never experienced real love or don't love themselves that is why they but up with the bullshit.
Al... I gotta give it to you on that.. Kelz made a great point as well... Love is not a feeling... its a behavior that has feelings attached to it. Its truly the way you act. You can tell someone you love them and the first thing they say is "you don't act like it". I don't think many people even understand the word love... that's why is so misconscrued... I.e. Al said love is selfish... its not supposed to, but the way people fucked up the word it seems that way. Love - understanding, trust, honesty, compassion, passion, sincerity... like if someone loves you, they truly try to understand you and your point. True love is allowing yourself to be taken out of your frame of mind to understand and sympathize with another. Love is giving your last to help someone else. So... honestly that's how you can evaluate it. And to be quite frank there are too many selfish people in this world for all these folks to be praticing "love". So at the emd of the day... its about love!!! Not about what someone can do for you.. Why I say that is... if you truly love someone... you'd give the world to them... chuuuuuuuuuch!
Denise, I fux with what you sayn, but that sounds like something you find in a perfect world, or on the soaps! You make a good point, but where I come from you rarely meet women(ppl) who have even experienced love from a father...Over half of us are starting out the gate with issues that only GOD can resolve...I'm not sayin that what you are talkin about is impossible, but its very rare because most of us don't know how to love someone
I WONT GET INTO THIS TOPIC... WHAT I WILL SAY IS THAT I'M LOVED!!! NATE YOU SHOULD BE SOME TYPE OF LOVE DOCTOR LOL!!!!
Mr. Austin I feel what you saying and you said the key phrase most people don't know how to Love anyway. To be honest I think most people start off knowing how to Love but we slowly stop Loving because of the experiences that we may have been through. Think of most kids they Love almost everyone until they start experiencing different situations in life. I did not say my views and opinions happen everyday but I know that it does happen.
LOVE DR? MAn Please... Fuck love. That shit is not important right now. Love can kiss my ass. Yeah i want company and companionship. most of all i want somebody i can talk to and fuck and not get on my nerves. just dont bother the fuck outta me, hold me down when i need it and give me some head. if any dude tell you he want more or less than that, he confused and you better run. Thats what love is to a dude. he can tolerate yo ass and he know you got his back. i mean that should be the basis of all relationships. yall reading to far into shit. Power comes because there is strength in numbers. the two of us working together can go further than i on my own. Barack and Michele, WIll and Jada, and most of all, Bill and Hilary. Im on another level. black folks been having it wrong for a lil while now. back in the day they they got married to tend to have kids to tend to the farm. now love has fucked everybody mind up
Yeah! What Nate said!!! MAn Law aprroved!!!
yall done oxymoron'd this joint to the 18th infinite power! LOVE dont fail... WE do! yall sayn love did dis & love did dat... like love 5'5 w/ brown eyes & a big booty....naw boo the female did this & the male did that...and if it hurt u that wasnt love..that was some fire azz like
Its not that im hurt. I just dont wanna deal with the childishness that surrounds "Love". im not even saying i will never love, Im just saying that at this point in my life, its easier to be with someone out of convience than it is love. I posed the question in the opening because i wanted to know how many people felt like that. I have not gave up on love or the ideal of it, but realistically speaking love's ideals aint shit in the game of life.
Nate...baby my bad...its just that black men are so dam beautiful when yal start talkn bout fuk love im like "dam that" me & my homegirls need all of that (no ho shyt + i got mine anyway) ...now that i know u willin to share love w/ some1 ever in life...back to my o.g. status...no love from a black man is dam near a TERRORISTIC THREAT TO ME!
HUGS ALL AROUND!!!
I agree. What does love have to do with it? I can settle for mutual admiration for one another. Don't get me wrong, love is a wonderful thing, but so hard to find. But love don't pay the bills. I know that if I have a certain direction that I want to go in life, and I have a person who and compliment that ideal, I can settle for that. And yeah, you MUST bring something to the table. If you can't, keep it movin!
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